Learning to be alone is very important. You need to know yourself in depth so that you can go out into the world with clear goals, with defined desires, and with a certainty in what you want and do not want in your life. Sometimes it is urgent to withdraw from noise, from the crowds, and from social events, even if it is just for a little while, in order to be in contact with yourself and think calmly. Today the Stars invite you to withdraw: taking a trip to the wonderful world inside you.
Not all people enjoy being alone, since they think they need the company of other people, a person who makes them feel important and loved, who distracts them from their negative thoughts, their daily worries and all the drama. However, being alone is a negative thing in our culture, and we often do not know how to manage our alone time. You should be aware that knowing how to be alone is extremely important in knowing yourself, knowing what you want and what you don't want in your life, and what you consciously choose. Do you know how to be alone? Many people are unable to manage their alone time. To find out if you know how to be alone, ask yourself how you feel when you are on your own . Do you take the chance to spend time with yourself? Do you do something you like? Do you have fun or do you get bored? Do you feel dependent on others? Do you like being alone at home? Do you think that finding a partner is an urgent matter? It is important for you to answer these questions so you can decide whether or not these are issues that concern you. In love, it's not just about being with someone in order to keep from being alone, but about being with someone you choose through love and affection. Being in a relationship is a choice, not so that you can cover up a personal and emotional emptiness.
Take some personal time alone throughout the week to be alone with yourself. Don't let anyone accompany you. Go to the movies, the theater, take a walk through the park. Check out a new neighborhood, take your camera. Go to the gym, or run, ride your bike and listen to some music. Read a book. Have lunch somewhere nice, or buy yourself coffee and watch people pass by. There are thousands of things you can do, it's just a matter of taking those little retreats and breathing.
One of the times when someone knows themselves is while traveling, particularly if you travel alone. Yes, alone. Without your friends, without your family, without your partner. When you are alone with your soul, facing thousands of challenges, whether small or large, you inevitably strengthen yourself and learn. Traveling alone will allow you to meet new people, since you will be more open and willing to meet people than if you are accompanied. You are also more likely to be encouraged to try new things, experiences that, if you are with another person, you will not do for a variety of reasons. You will make friends in countries far away, and get to know other cultures closely. You will get back that curiosity that you had as a child and you will explore places that will widen your perception of the world. But beyond that, the important thing is that you will learn to value yourself and also to value your loneliness. You will discover yourself, you will enjoy the silence you desire, the companionship you desire, and you will only respect your time and your desires. Try it, you will not regret it!